Choices, for some people, can be a catalyst of anxiety. To choose or not to choose. Most often, those that are gripped by the fist of turmoil over having to make a choice, sit in this turmoil and choose nothing.

What happens then?

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I wasn’t okay. I questioned myself constantly. I had no idea who I was outside of my marriage, outside of my extended family. Outside of being a wife and all that comes with that label within my circle.

Her name is Fran. And she overstayed her welcome too many times to be let back in. The incessant mosquito while sleeping. I laid in wait for years with my fly swatter. Practicing my swing until the time was right.

Fran was going down.

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It was earth shattering, mind blowing and a creator for epiphanies. It was an Oprah moment wrapped up into a sit down with the Dalai Lama and a visit from the resurrected Jesus himself, while Moses did a tap dance in the corner.

I finally saw myself.