About Me

Mental health isn’t a flaw to fix - it’s often a reflection of where safety was never granted, and where reconnection is now possible.

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Welcome. I’m Lea.

I’m a mother and bonus parent to four, a dog mom, and someone who has lived enough life to know that “fine” is often just code for functional. I laugh loudly, feel deeply, swear when it fits, and trust my intuition because it’s been earned the hard way. I love cozy socks and 90s music, believe sensitivity is a form of intelligence, and yes, salt and vinegar chips are a food group. Pineapple on pizza is non-negotiable. (we can agree to disagree)

I was born and raised in Coquitlam, BC, and now live and work in Kelowna. I’ve navigated complex trauma rooted in childhood and carried forward through adulthood, along with divorce, blended family life, and the particular kind of identity reckoning that comes with perimenopause. None of that made me polished. It made me real. It taught me how messy healing actually is, how nonlinear growth can be, and how much of life happens in the grey.

If we’re going to work together, I don’t want to show up as a perfectly regulated professional version of myself. I want you to feel like you’re sitting across from a human who understands what it’s like to carry a lot, question everything, lose yourself for a while, and still keep going. I’m intuitive, relational, and deeply grounded, but I’m not here to perform wellness or sell you a tidy version of healing, because that would be a lie. Healing is messy.

Below, I’ll share a bit about how I work, how this path unfolded, and what working together can look like.

How I See Healing

Many people arrive here feeling broken. Not in a dramatic way, but in the quiet, heavy sense of something being fundamentally wrong with them. On the outside, life may look fine or at least functional, while internally there’s overwhelm, disconnection, or a constant wondering why things feel harder than they seem to for everyone else.

We’re often taught to think our way out of pain, power through stress, or fix ourselves into something more acceptable. When that doesn’t work, it’s easy to turn the blame inward. Very few of us were taught how to listen to our bodies, understand our nervous systems, or make sense of our responses without labeling them as failure or dysfunction.

I don’t see healing as becoming someone better or more put together. I see it as coming back into relationship with yourself. With your body. With your story. Sometimes that starts with recognizing that what feels broken is often a system that adapted under pressure. What you’ve been calling a flaw may have once been a way you survived. Healing isn’t about erasing that. It’s about understanding it, updating it, and offering yourself the care that was missing when it first formed.

How I Work (and Why There Are Different Offerings)

I’ve always been intuitive. It’s part of how I notice patterns and make sense of people and experience. Over time, through training, supervision, and discernment, I learned that intuition can be supportive, but it doesn’t belong everywhere. That understanding is why my work is offered in distinct ways, depending on what kind of support you’re seeking.

My counselling and coaching work is relational, grounded, and intentionally non-intuitive. These sessions are guided by ethics, nervous system education, collaboration, and practical, present-focused support within clear professional boundaries.

My energetic healing and medical intuitive sessions are where intuitive perception is used, with consent and defined scope. This work is complementary and non-diagnostic, offering another way of listening to the body without replacing medical or mental health care.

For those seeking education rather than one-to-one support, I’m also the founder of Mind Your Heart Academy, a trauma-informed learning space offering psychoeducation, workshops, and professional circles designed to support understanding, integration, and ethical application in both personal and professional contexts.

What connects all of my offerings is a shared foundation of safety, clarity, consent, and respect for your inner authority. You remain in control of your process. My role is to support it, not direct it.

The Work I’ve Done Along the Way

I didn’t arrive here through a straight line, a single certification, or a neatly packaged career path. For more than a decade, I’ve worked with thousands of people through retreats, workshops, speaking engagements, and educational spaces. I’ve taught stress management within the Coquitlam School District, facilitated learning environments for professionals and organizations, and supported people navigating burnout, emotional overload, and major life transitions.

Alongside this work, I spent close to seven years in ongoing, relational mentorship with multiple teachers. Not quick trainings or surface-level certifications, but long-term, foundational mentorship that shaped how I listen, how I hold space, and how I understand the human experience. I taught spiritual development and meditation as lived practices, not as techniques to master, but as ways of learning how to be with yourself more honestly, patiently, and with greater awareness.

Over time, I began to notice something important. As people felt safer, more regulated, and more connected, deeper material would naturally surface. Not because it was forced, but because the nervous system finally had the capacity to allow it. At that point, education and coaching alone weren’t always enough. People needed support that was ethically grounded, clinically informed, and able to hold greater emotional depth.

That recognition is what led me into formal training for counselling.

Becoming a Registered Therapeutic Counsellor wasn’t a departure from my earlier work, it was a continuation of it. Counselling gave structure, accountability, and clinical grounding to the relational and nervous-system-based work I had already been doing for years. It allowed me to support people more fully, safely, and ethically as their needs deepened.

Today, my work is informed by both paths. The years of mentorship, teaching, and intuitive development shaped how I understand people. Counselling training shaped how I hold responsibility, boundaries, and care. Together, they allow me to offer support that is relational, trauma-informed, and grounded without losing its humanity.

One thing has remained constant throughout it all. People aren’t lacking insight, motivation, or effort. They’re tired. They’re overwhelmed. And they deserve support that respects both their history and their capacity.

Inclusive Access & Care

My office is an inclusive, trauma and shame-informed space open to anyone seeking support, growth, or greater understanding of themselves. Over the years, I’ve worked with people from many walks of life and stages of living, across cultures and backgrounds. What brings them together isn’t a label or role, but a shared desire to feel steadier, more connected, and more at home in themselves.

Locations

ACCT – Association of Cooperative Counselling Therapists of Canada

Virtually & In-Person | 501 - 1726 Dolphin Avenue
Landmark District, Kelowna, BC, Canada
Free 3-hour parking, Elevator access

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I’m grateful to work virtually within a collaborative collective at Cove Counselling in Coquitlam, alongside a group of thoughtful, skilled counsellors who each bring their own strengths and approaches. If at any point you feel I’m not the right fit for what you’re looking for, I encourage you to explore the other clinicians at Cove. Finding the right therapeutic relationship matters, and you deserve support that feels aligned and supportive.

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